On Summer, Motherhood, and Work

On Summer, Motherhood, and Work

I always get a bit panicked when the kids get out of school for the summer. School brings structure and routine, which I value, and our summer life does not include much structure. Sunday morning I met a new person at church, Michelle. Michelle works at a high level...
Letting Go and Showing Up

Letting Go and Showing Up

This is day one/two of the Weaving Influence Summer Tour, and my girls and I have arrived in Beckley, WV. Driving comprised most of our first day, which began with my girls finishing their school year and a mad rush to leave early enough to make it to Beckley in time...
I’m Still Standing

I’m Still Standing

Since moving to my new office space, I spend nearly all of my working hours standing. My family and I have a running joke about how the extra weight is just sliding off of me from the calories I burn from standing all day. Unfortunately, I have been standing for...
Relationships Are Everything

Relationships Are Everything

As the leader of what I am now calling a blended team, I am painfully aware of the inequity between the experiences of my in-person team and my virtual subcontractors. Jessica, my assistant, has constant access to me. Our standing work stations face each...
Leading Can Be Lonely

Leading Can Be Lonely

I’ve joked that the only people in my life (outside my family) that I spend significant time with fall into two categories: People I give money to. People who are giving money to me. Although it’s a bit of an exaggeration, it’s not too far off....
This Is Still Who I Am

This Is Still Who I Am

Late afternoon call with a potential client. I return from picking up my daughter and a friend. They’re hungry, but I don’t have time to stop to get them a snack, so I direct them to ask my oldest daughter to help them. Except that my oldest daughter has...
It Could Have Gone Either Way

It Could Have Gone Either Way

I love the new Facebook memories feature because in my early days of Facebook use, I did a good job of capturing my life. Who am I kidding? I still update Facebook pretty faithfully. Today, Facebook alerted me to the fact that 6 years ago today is the day my...
What Love Looks Like

What Love Looks Like

The year my husband and I started dating, we spent Easter at his parents’ home. After church, we joined extended family for lunch. When we returned to Eric’s parents’ home, he initiated a powerful moment. He carried a basin of warm water to a quiet...
The Evolution Of An Office

The Evolution Of An Office

I’ve been working from my home since early 2009, when a desk and family-shared laptop in the corner of our living room comprised my office. I later graduated to my very own net-book computer, at which point I felt like I’d arrived. The fact that my work...